Well did the Thanksgiving at the in-laws...and W was there when we got there...I was polite but did not try to engage my W very much...I like my IL's and talked to them very much...It was really nice of them to invite us...but I am glad it is over...now we have Christmas coming up. My W wonders if I am angry or sad but I am just distancing myself from her. She always ask me whats wrong...I say nothing not wanting to say "I am just distancing myself from you"