TheUF - Changing gears - Dropping the rope?

[Soul.Searching]

See that's where I think a lot of WAS get confused too. If you have been working, looking after you S now and just dealing with everyday situations now and you go on a holiday, Would you not get that same de-stressing feelings and relaxation?

Yes, I really do wish I could talk to my Uncle about it all now. The hardest part is I missed out by around two weeks. I find it really has helped me a lot though. Right now I really have to work on it each time but I think it's already starting to work quicker. I hope one day I can just do it right away, without needing to really try so hard.

Your W is sounding a lot like my H right now. I have decided to drop the rope. He calls and talks for ages when he wants to. He asks me questions and even pushes for details. Where I have been, who with ect but yet gets angry if I ask him a question. Then other times he wont answer my call or message. Then he will call, now even say hello, just ask to talk to the kids. He then hangs up as soon as he is done.
Ive decided that I do not put up with one sided friendships from anybody else, do why should I do it with H?
What is it telling him if I continue to do so?
That it's okay to treat me like that?
Well it's not okay to treat me like that and I'm going to let him know. That's a boundary I'm not letting him continue to cross any longer.

Only you can decided to drop the rope but I think in order to be able to drop the rope, you first need to drop the fear.