No sparks = no reason for a second date. I've done the "it will grow" and it just doesn't. Well, at least for me.
I've been dating a veterinarian and letting him slowly into my life. I started to open up and be vulnerable and "WHAM" I started to push him away. I have this dark side and I'm terrified of rejection and he just got too close. I tried to explain it to him, but I don't think he understands. Anyway, he left on Wed. for a Thanksgiving visit and I haven't heard from him since. We're supposed to talk today, but I'm just a bit miffed that he couldn't even pick up the phone on a holiday to check in. I think that's SO rude!!
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
