I read through your thread as well. Wow, at the beginning of all of this I wondered if trying to DB with the "spouse in the house" would be easier. Now I realize that none of this is easy!
Originally Posted By: mrsrjd
He may not think there's terrible news because possibly in his mind its all already settled. He may very well see your visit as just that, a visit with an old flame. Remember to have no expectations - something I find hard to do myself.
Even though we are not supposed to mind read, I think you are exactly right. I am trying to have no expectations - good or bad - but the "bad" just keep creeping in. I am really just trying to enjoy the day with someone who I really used to enjoy so much. Except my guts are hanging out.
