In Legal Limbo - What is next?

[Grateful]

Yesterday, you can call it a slip-up, but I wasn't interested in the the DB aspect of the sitch. Somehow, in a text message conversation regarding the kids, the will of God came up. I said that we aren't in the will of God with this right now. She said speak for yourself. I asked her to explain. She said adultry. About four years ago, I had an EA with a co-worker. While there was some hugging and kissing, nothing else was the case. I ended it and even transferred schools to ensure it never happened again. It was even pre-salvation for me. She said that there is no such thing as just an EA, and she is in the will of God by doing this.