Hi TJP,

I am sorry about your H's controlling and selfish behavior. It really is hurtful.

When my H has done things that hurt the most, I remind myself that he is not the man I married. THAT man would be disgusted with this imposter.

I look around our home, and I want to take down all the pics of us together. I feel like they are from a former life, one I don't have anymore, with a man who doesn't exist anymore.

No matter what they say, WE know the truth about our M. They can never take away our happy memories even if they want to rewrite history in their own messed up brains.

See a L about your rights. Time to protect yourself and your D's. Your H doesn't realize that there are consequences for his actions. It will be a tough lesson for him to learn.

I am sorry you are going through this. Stay strong, you have people here who care and support you smile


Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me

~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."