Well, today was a new day, completely different than thanksgiving the day before. H stopped the money. He wants complete control and wants me to ask for money and make an itemized list of what the girls and I spend money on. No. I'm done. The girls said they are done. He has done nothing but hurt us and I can't allow him to do it anymore. Right now, at 2:00 am, my older daughter is in her room boxing up everything that her Dad has ever given her. I delivered a message to my H via text from my girls. They wanted their Dad to know that the were done with him. That he is no longer their Dad and they don't ever want to talk to him again. We believe that he is still carrying on his affair. The girls told him four months ago, that if he started that realtionship again, they would be out of his life.
I don't plan on filing for divorce. I will be speaking to my lawyer on Monday about a legal separation. My parents were here for a few days. They were here when I found out about the money being stopped. They wrote me a check, which I didn't want to take. It's money they CAN'T afford to give. But, I know they are desperate to help in some way. I will never forgive my husband for dragging my whole family thru his devastating decisions. I have the best parents and daughters that God could give.
My birthday is Sunday. I will be starting it as a different woman. I took off my wedding ring. The girls and I are all wearing matching rings I bought a couple days ago. It has engraved on the band, "With God, all things are possible".
I told the girls I wouldn't let their dad hurt them anymore. My OD said,"he can't take anything else away. He has already taken our money, our trust and our love. There is nothing he can do to hurt us more than he already has." Those are words I never thought I would hear.
