SB you say H is "unfixable". Not your job to fix him. And you can't. You can only fix you. There is nothing more beautiful than a pregnant woman. It is very important to take care of yourself and the kiddos. I know how hard it is to not focus on the sitch. It probably consumes most of your days? Put it aside until March so the baby is happy and healthy. Hard to do I hear ya. Just try.....
I don't like the way he communicates with D. I think he maybe acting as the "Christmas parent" others are welcome to chime in. My exw spent lots of money on my D while going through this. Not uncommon.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
