Well, went on a dinner date tonight. A guy I met online and had a coffee date with a month ago or so. We both were too busy to get together until now.
Pros: He's just a couple of years older than me, was married for fifteen years, seems thoughtful, is tall, and a musician
Cons: He's a musician (makes a living at it but not exactly flush), he's older than me (serious beer belly - can't help it, my medical mind leaps to beer belly=low testosterone and insulin resistance = sexual dysfunction) and unfortunately - even though I think he's a very nice man - no sparks.
