Volunteer somewhere, it's great for getting perspective and get your mind off your "stuff."

Your other GAL sounds great but make sure you're meeting new people, they can give you a new view of you.

Try Meet-Up.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss