I should have also written though, I firmly believe if you say anything in response, say it calmly and I repeat, matter of factly. Not because you're mad at her text or thoughts. Because you honestly disagree and want to say it for the record.
M-34 XW-32 D-7 Found OM's presence 4/09 Separated 12/09 Divorced 8/10 GREAT relationship as coparents since 8/10