Unfortunately, more often than not, most Walk Aways leave a wide path of destruction before realizing the pain they have caused.
I could replace Walk Away with LBS to describe me before the BD. I was operating in a fog, not paying attention to the important things in my life, being controlled by anger and resentment, thinking that it he would change everything would be better.
Sometimes it takes something big to wake us up, at least that was true for me.
That doesn't mean I take all the responsibility but I do accept that which is mine.
Were you really perfect, Bruce?
Amen bug. My W fought for years until she reached the point where she can't fight anymore. She has even said to me that you wait until I am done to change. Let's both just pray that we never go back to the fog no matter what happens.
Agree. Bug has a point. Grateful as well. Many of us were WAS, we just didn't actually move, we checked out emotionally, physically and or mentally. It must have been stressful for you to move here and find the changes in your relationship. Be the man she fell in love with. Bonne chance mon ami!
