You have to change your mindset. Sure you can't force her to do something she won't, but believe what you know is true.
If even you can't believe it, how can she?
If she can't see it though, it's her choice. And she might regret it.
In my sitch I try to remind myself that it's not my job to force her to see the the bad choices she might be making. I can only do so much, the rest is up to her.
Together for 8,5 years. S2 Interest in OM. She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out. No signs of OM, not digging. Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.
