You have an opinion Fuanac, and it DOES matter. You need to stop minimizing the importance of YOU. Not only as it relates to your M and your W, but everything in your life. YOU matter. YOUR opinions matter.

So what, is your W better off being married to you, or being with OM?

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce