Heather, I think I would let it go this time. Choose your battles in order to win the war. If he does it again, I would then advise him that what goes on in your home or w/you is your business only.
He may not have inquired about you at all, but said that to smooth the waters because his main objective was to see if his daughter had apologized. I can't even imagine him calling your neighbors to inquire about you...just not in his current mlc nature.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
