I have read the twelve steps book on codependency, and I probably am being codependent.
I wanted better for my child. I have seen what divorce did to my first four children. I don't like seeing my daughter in pain. She knows her mom doesn't want us, and it hurts her probably more than it does me.
I am continuing to read DB, DR, and will follow the advice from the books and you guys. Thank you for the support. I don't have any close friends to confide in. I spent all my time in my family, work and school.
Unfortunately I cannot afford a DB coach. I have a therapist I have used before, but I don't know if he can help me with this situation.
