You guys are right. She has been my life for 13 years, and I am having a hard time letting go. When I did let go she started saying I love you, being affectionate, and talking about staying. Then it disappears and she wants to leave again. I just don't want our marriage and family to end. My daughter and I need her, and she doesn't care. I also know what she wants to do, and I don't want her to make mistakes that she will regret for the rest of her life.
We had talked and she is ok with me taking my daughter out of state. If or when she leaves she is moving back to Las Vegas.
We don't have a lot of money, I took over the finances in January. She doesn't like it, and complains that I don't let her buy what ever she wants. I am trying to make sure the bills get paid. We already have separate accounts so she can only drain hers.
My whole issue with this situation, is the fact that she doesn't want her daughter. She used to like being a wife and parent, now she doesn't want either. All she wants is sex with as many partners as she can, and could care less what damage she leaves in her wake.
