Hey Tumbling, how are you doing today? Its ok not to be 'done' yet. It has to happen when YOU are ready and only you will know when that it. You could just wake up and feel 'done'. I like Bug's suggestion of saying it was good, but thats gone. Means we don't have to deny what we KNOW was good, while also accepting the reality of the present.

((((((Tumbling))))))

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home