TTH, my heart goes out to you. I could have almost written that post at one point.
Hang in there. Things aren't over until it's over. Sounds deep, but you already know that. You also have a leg up knowing it has nothing to do with you. That took me longer to figure out
Take care of you and your kids. Be careful what you say in front of them - it matters. And keep in mind how hard it is for your kids and your w. You're right those demons are tough for her and she'll have to deal with each and every one of them. Likely while putting on a face of serenity and happiness. Don't be fooled.
Detaching is important for you. You have to detach from the outcome else it will cause a lot of resentment and anger in you. You can't control the outcome - only you. Reading Cadet's links is a very good idea. I highly recommend doing that many times.
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
