I'm glad you and the girls had a nice Thanksgiving, but I'm not surprised he didn't contact them yesterday. Mlcers tend to disappear when their is a holiday or anniversary floating around. He'll touch base again before the beginning of the week. He's got to let this holiday settle down before he does.

So, what does your daughter want for her birthday?

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.