WEll Thanksgiving is done and now it's D9's b day next week, then Christmas time rush.

The girls and I really enjoyed our Thanksgiving together. D13 even asked to say Grace before we ate. Though she was a bit emabarassed and giggly, she did say a nice prayer. I was suprised I didn't even ask her to do that.

XH didn't contact the girls at all yesterday. He wished them a Happy Thanksgiving the day before but didn't even bother to text a Happy Thanksgiving yesterday. The girls pay attention to how much their father interacts with them and I can tell they were disappointed. XH seems to have backed way off even BEFORE the girls talked to him about staying home Thanksgiving.

So I guess the last couple months of him acting decent, opening up a bit, and being friendly was just another touch and go or maybe peeking out pretty good from the tunnel, but as soon as reality comes along, back in he goes!


M=42 XH=44
M=18 T=21
D14 D11
Divorced 4/2012
XH marries OW 6/2014.