I want the man that he truly is, not this "stranger" that he is acting like. I've been there, I've gone through my own MLC which started all this. So I'm willing to "wait" while moving on at the same time. I will move on for me and my daughter but ill leave the door open for him. I don't know what his involvement in my D's life he will have now, only time will tell. But I know I love the man I've been with for 15 years, not the man he has been for the past 3 months. My D and I are going to stay in our family home for at least another 6 months so that is one of my goals - to have him return home before the end of June. I spent a few hours last night working on my goals, very hard indeed. But I have time now. And space. I won't give up on bringing my family back together.