I am not sure if this statement ^^^^^ is DB but it will keep me emotionally safe, in control and prevents the ride. I was doing OK w texts until I saw him. Seeing him gets my hopes up. Until I can detach, I don't think I can text or see him. Texts satisfy him but it isn't enough for me and I have enough people txtng me as it is. And I don't need one way messages, I need interaction / appreciation that I get from my friends and the board (virtual presence)
Me too. NC unless major emergency with kids or house. I need a husband not a friend, so am not biting anymore either!
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And I wonder if that's OK? I mean it's great for me but if I am great without H - why am I not done?
Because you are not done with H and you are learning that you can have great days/weeks/months without him. Your happiness is not tied to H and the two are not mutually exclusive.
I miss my old husband too, =but you know what? I also missed the old me (and she and I have been getting re-acquainted )
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