Can This Be Salvaged?

[leopoldstotch]

Another thing I just remembered is how my W will always bring up things I did to her in the past and by the past I mean things that happened 20 to 25 years ago. I never bring up her past affairs at all. As far as I'm concerned they are done and over with I chose to forgive her and move past them. I've asked her why she brings up the past and lives in it her answer was she can't forget the past. My counselor is flabbergasted by this and has said to me that even murderers get paroled after some time has passed.