Had a dreadful session with counsellor last night. I am not going back. She tried to force me to be responsible and address the current affair. She thinks I am dependant on him and unrealistically want to sort things out. She tried to force him to decide try with me or leave for her. He all but said leave and is seeing her next week so she can help him make his decision. Everything I do and say is wrong. I tried a 180 and he just threw it back at me. Think it's hopeless - he has no interest in trying to work it out. He keeps saying I do not have the type of body he is attracted to and never have had - but he initially thought he could get out that. His coworker has all of that. He also can't get past the fact I have a higher income than him and doesn't want to continue in that situation even though he was always aware that would be the case when we married. I can't stop crying and really don't know what else to do. He will be home 1 night on Sun before he moves out for good.
