Unfortunately, things haven't calmed down really in 5 months, I don't know when this will happen. Can't afford to have her take my son, and the money, and lose her in the meantime.
Yeah, I see this can be problematic. It seemed things were extra bad right now, but from reading your other posts she just seems uncooperative in general.
I feel for you man. I really hope you get more time with your S. I knew a girl who got pregnant and broke off with bf, then denied him any custody. He was a nice guy too. I felt so bad for the guy I actually never spoke to her again.
I don't know what advice to give, but I think you should definitely fight for your S in one way or another.
Originally Posted By: Big Bruce
Was it a good or bad thing? Did she liked that you were interested in your son, or did she feared you taking him 40% of the time?
She lost it in a bad way. She thought I was trying to take him from her to punish her. She said I didn't care to spend time with him before, why now. Jeez. We all lived together, I put him to bed, spent time with him, changed diapers, the works. I work long hours, but that's how we got money. I couldn't believe she could say or believe those things.
When I (2 days later) calmly and genuinly explained her why I wanted time with S she calmed down and we were able to discuss.
In the first month she said she would always call me first if she was working and needed someone to care for S. And she did. Now though she has been at work several times without asking or contacting me at all.
My going dim/dark, just made her go dim/dark back. lol.
Together for 8,5 years. S2 Interest in OM. She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out. No signs of OM, not digging. Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.
