I know that I'm very frustrated in my own sitch because my H refuses to change his perspective. Well, that's not entirely true. We are not D and he has not filed like he threatened so many times. So he's changed his perspective in that regard. But I fear he'll never be able to see or appreciate my changes because he refuses to work on changing his perspective.

I agree w AJ here - I think perspective makes all the difference in the world. A hot shower feels great on a cold day, but horrible on a hot day.

Have a great Thanksgiving CV.


Me54, H53
M 23, T 25
S20, S18
BD: April 2024
Moved out: August 2024

Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.

"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page