No offense taken Snodderly, none at all. I pretty much figured I may not be ready, but I am finding myself interested in men again.
Just one question, how on earth do you NOT compare your new relationships with old relationships?
I don't understand that. I've been involved with a self absorbed MLCers for years. If I find a nice man that is nothing like XH, don't I need to compare what's different between the two in order to help me see a healthy relationship for what one really is?
I kinda feel like dating might speed up the healing process for me a bit. I know working with some very nice emotionally healthy men helped me to realize juse how unhealthy XH is. It was such an eye opener to see that not all people live like that or act like that.
Just curious how to go about this dating business...cause the idea of it is overwhelming anyway.
