Happy thanksgiving to all on here! This is my second holiday spent without my x. Last year was well, horrible. This year, much better. There is still a lingering sadness for what might have been, and fond memories of holidays past, but no more crushing depression. So, as they say, time does much to heal old wounds. I think living here in nj, and desling daily with victims of the recent storms who in many cases have lost most of thrir material posessions, but, crucially, not their spirit, has also done much to keep things in perspective! Sorry for typos, phones have their own mind ;-)

m 54
XW 48
m 12
t 14
bomb 6-11
s 10-11
wife moved to other state 10-21-11
d 9-12

O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!