Gosh. I'll respond back in more detail after I read more...
But, the guy disappears for days at a time w/the OW, and you're concerned that its harder and harder to be nice to him...???
Based on mine, and many, many others I've dealt with here... He will only be interested once you've moved on... And, then if he does.. You have the choice...
Do you really want this type of man for your next relationship?
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
