I'm sorry he pulled that stunt w/your girls. Your daughter is wise beyond her years when she pointed out that he had his family and the ow. I'm sure that went over like a lead balloon. Of course you got spew...he thinks you've brainwashed the girls and we know that isn't true. He can't see that his behavior is what is driving the girls away from him. He's still in a densely foggy area and who knows if he'll ever find his way out of the woods.
Kimmerz, I'm going to go out on a limb and just say this and I don't want you to take it the wrong way. Okay? I don't think you are ready to be dating. You've still not completely healed from your relationship w/your xh. You still have some wounds that haven't completely healed and they are still festering and you don't want to go out on dates and be comparing the new relationships you develop w/what you had w/your xh. Give yourself some time. Don't rush your healing process.
I hope that you and your daughters have a nice Thanksgiving.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
