Darn, screwed up the quotes. The first part of the above post should read like this:
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Originally Posted By: Terry B
I watched the videos and have started pulling away, but I am having a hard time because I want her to know I love her.
Oh she knows. Quit telling her. If you haven't gotten the books yet, read the DB 180's sticky thread at the top of this forum. It's basically an overview of what to do and how to act. No "I love you". No R talks. No following her around the house like a puppy. No pursuit at all. Work on yourself. Show your W a happy you no matter what. Act "as if" everything is great even when you're hurting inside.
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She has given us until mid January.
Ignore her time line, it's meaningless. She will change her mind 10 times between now and then. She will decide to leave sooner, then not at all, then later, then who knows. Concentrate on DB'ing. Take everything she says with a grain of salt.
