@ForeverYoung I am halfway through both DR and DB. The chapter on mid-life crisis scared me. I am trying to let go and do well until she starts showing affection again, then takes it away.
@Rick1963 She complained that I didn't shave but once a week. I put on 100 lbs(of which I have lost all but 20 of it so far), she states I am too needy and clingy. She said I am not confident and assertive. That's about it.
She says she will try but doesn't really want the feelings of love to come back. A lot of what she wants we can do with in the marriage, except the part where she wants to travel, meet her BSDM friends, and have sex with other people.
I could use any advice I can get, and appreciate all of your comments.
