Thanks Snodderly, S13 talked to H about it and he promised to have him home on time to help the neighbor......so we'll see.
This will be our first thanksgiving not being a family. SIL called me this morning and she is so ticked off with H she said he's such a far cry from the man he was. She is a nurse and she has a 6 yr old with a drug addict who she was with for 9 years but after her son was born she changed instantly and realised that she couldn't save him or change him, because of what shes saw and lived withshe believes H is on drugs, because of the way he's acting and behaving and he's lost 50lbs without exercising or dieting. It is so hard to imagine him on drugs as hes never tried an illegal drug in his life. Sorry all just thinking outloud, thanks for listening
M 41 H 43 M 22 S 18 S 14 D 11 Affair discovered 1/12 He filed 2/12 OW#2 7/12 she lives next door. D pending