Yes LITB, My christian principles have made me take that decision from the beginning. I honoured her parents, although I know they aren't doing anything to prevent their daughter to do what she's doing. I respected them and every wish from her, from the 1st day I set foot in this country all by myself alone. I admitted my wrongs and sought forgiveness. I changed my ways. I never accused her of anything, or blamed her for taking that decision, or acting like she's acting. I always showed grace, kindness, gave money she was asking, accepted the visits places, times, supervision and frequency..
In a way, that is what makes it more desperate : if being "perfect", only lead her to file for D, there's no amount of DB that will do it.
Telling her that I wouldn't let her have 100% custody of our son any longer is the first move "against" her since I arrived in July, because you guys encouraged me to do it last week, remember? (and you were right). But in return, she didn't wait one day (look at the dates of the email I sent her, and the response!), to go see her lawyer and file for D!
The only positive thing : our son is her Achille's heel, so it seems, and she will feel funny when she'll miss him. Maybe she'll understand that separation and D is ugly. It's serious, people get hurt. For the moment, I am the only one hurt in the story. For her, it's all nice. Yet.
Me:34 ; W:28 Son: almost 2. Married : 14 March 2009 DBomb : 18 June 2012 Separated since Jan 2012 (different countries) Same country and city since July 2012
