Sweetbriar, I don't post of your thread often, but I'm familiar with what you're going through, and it must be so TOUGH. I can only imagine.
I hope you sent a quick one liner to say thanks for the message. My H has used those words too: "for what it's worth." Your H meant, "I know it's over but I still remember--and maybe hint I care."
Congrats on the baby developing so well. Something to be thankful for.