Good question :what am I going to do to make my wife stay.
If I knew what to do, I would be doing it.

Don'ts : writing letters, writing emails asking to consider seeing a counsellor, the pastor, etc... inviting her for a diner, inviting her for a coffee, inviting her to have a 5 min talk, telling her ILY, calling her, emailing her too much.

Dos : be upbeat, play with my son, getting interested in her , ask questions about her (and listen), asking questions my son(show interest), tell her at least one compliment per meeting, write fewer emails (it's our only way of communication by distance!)

Anything to add to this list, ladies and gentlemen?

Me:34 ; W:28
Son: almost 2.
Married : 14 March 2009
DBomb : 18 June 2012
Separated since Jan 2012 (different countries)
Same country and city since July 2012