I just read chapter 12 of "The Divorce Remedy," I was so depressed after that chapter. I don't think I can do it. She wants to move out and meet the people she had met on one of the BDSM sites she looks at. By the way, I hate 50 shades of grey so much. She wants to sleep with those men. I don't think I can be as forgiving about affairs as some of those in the MLC topics. I miss my wife and friend so much.