Val your thoughts were so right on. I am not responsible for his feelings. I really just need to be myself and not worry about if being me effects him. Gosh I can't hear that kind of stuff enough.

I don't need to worry about whether or not he hates me. I don't have any control over his feelings.

Kg I thought your answers were very sweet and age appropriate I will definitely steAl some of them.

It's so sad that these are the talks we are have with our kids. Anyway just count our blessings.

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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13