I agree LITB, it's taken me twice as long to feel the gift of detachment but I was married twice a long plus change. smile

Just keep working your yourself, moving your thoughts to you when they wander toward Spouse and it happens.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss