God, this is so frustrating. I know that I want to go down fighting but I don't want to cause my W more pain. Even though I know it will be short lived, she will be happy. That is all I've ever wanted for her. I can take the pain, I've been living in perpetual fear for 3 years. I've always considered myself a strong willed person. She is not, and hearing her cry on the phone broke my heart more than her leaving me. I don't want to put her through more pain. I'm so torn.
What is better for her in the long run fuanac? Being in her marriage to you? Or being with OM?
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce