Do I Have a Chance?

[complicated]

Well this morning he went to the house, after I had left for work, and started to move the furniture back and scratched the newly finished floor. I didn't get mad but I could tell he was mad and he was kind of taking it out on me. His tone of voice was really ignorent and it upset me. He could tell it upset me and he thought I was mad at him for scratching the floor. I told him I wasn't that it upset me that he was taking it out on me. Then he told me I could move the rest of the furniture. Obviously I have to call people for help so it won't be that easy.

Kat, I don't know what to do when I need to know an answer about something, whether it be for the house or the kids, and he doesn't respond until a day or two later. It is very frustrating and normally it would get me mad but this is where I am trying to keep my cool. I'm not sure how he would react if I left him hanging because I don't do that to him. I try and treat him like I would want to be treated. Especially since all of this has happened. Of course he doesn't see it and I am not pointing it out.

It is the little things, that add up to big things, that I have trouble knowing how to react or not react. So far I still am not calling him, just answering when he calls or texts me.

This morning through all of that he made a reference to me going to most of my daughters games too. The only response I made was that I was glad I did and I wouldn't change that for the world. It makes me happy and I think it makes her happy too. He, on the other hand, didn't attend many. I don't think he should be able to attack me for doing that.