I know I have faults and I am struggle to with them. I know I am co-dependent, one of my problems is that I do not show anger, this is one thing she complained about. I know she did not get the breast for me, I understand that. I have been read through this book, and struggle to keep that expectations for myself. I know I have problems, and I am in therapy now, trying to figure them out, why i do what I do. I know this must be hard for her to, but she is really making it look easy and that is what is killing me.