Ok, here's what I did. I feel pretty good about it. Feel as if I reclaimed my power.
Since he took the doors within the last week, that means he has seen OW. I told him 10 days ago that I wasn't comfortable with him coming over to the house and acting like a family when she was still in the picture. He has been coming to the house.
So... after I noticed the doors were gone, I texted "Where are the doors to the jeep?"
He replied "I took them and put them on the jeep so I could close it up for the winter."
I asked "Is the jeep at Dani's place?" (dani is OW)
He took awhile and replied
"It is at Mike's house (mike lives with OW). Too many mice at my parents house..."
Then he changes the subject and asks a question about D18.
I reply
"Thanks for the reminder. As long as she is in ur life, ur not in mine-we are living separate lives-have a happy thanksgiving."
Then I add "Next time please let me know before you remove anything-then I don't have to worry something was stolen."
He responds
"I'm very sorry. I don't have anywhere else to park it. Mike has a couple of cats and they do a nice job of keeping it rodent free. I would ask to bring it home but it would be covered in chicken poop. I'm being honest what more can I do."
I don't think this deserves any response. I've said my part. And, now I can relax and enjoy Thanksgiving Damm!t!
Heather
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson