So I just re-read Sandi's 37 rules. I have been here countless times before but have a question with the believe none of what you hear idea. Does that mean when he gave me the speech yesterday I think it was about I used to love u but don't anymore. Don't see a future with you I found my soulmate I love u bc your my kids mom. But I have no romantic feeling for you anymore. Doesn't that have to be true? Please don't think I am an idiot. Yes I need 2x4s right now. I have done some work around the house like making our bedroom my own these last few days and working on GAL.
Do I even love him or am I codependent?
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12
