I really think one of the most important things you can do is not feed off of what he gives you. If you are in a good mood it is because of you and nothing he has said or done. Also don't let his reactions bring you down. Really connect to yourself and your feelings.
I believe that you still might pull back some more and not initiate these little conversations. Give him the time and space to figure out what is going on for him. He needs to figure out your value for himself.
hang in there, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory