MLC, affair, internet pictures, we're a mess

[cantslowdown]

Well we're spending Thanksgiving with some of my family and we also agreed to travel home and spend Christmas split between both our families. Our first counseling session will be this Monday. So far the only advice I have for that is keep my mouth shut, don't make excuses about the past (just take responisbility for what I did do wrong), and focuse only on what can be done to do good things today and forward. Let everyone else get stuck in the past if that's wherre they want to go, but don't let myself get wrapped around that wheel. If I do, I will either try to psychoanalyze all the wrong thinsg I've ever done or make excuses instead of saying yes, that was wrong, but what can I do right today and int he future.