Hey Sunny, I had my 10 year anniversary back in June among all this madness. Just a suggestion... Maybe get her a non-mushy card and leave it somewhere for her to open in private. This way, no pressure on her to say or act a certain way. She can just read your card and think about it on her own. Good luck!
Thanks I am still not sure if I am gonna do it but I will let you all know --
My inlaws are coming up for a month starting today - I love my FIL so much I am excited - we have been actually getting a long great - but no expectations right !!!
Sunny
If someone decides there is no goodness in you they won't be able to see it. I'll take a BLT over a MLC anyday !!!