Thanks for the response. I just wanted to clear something up. I don't ask the kids about their visits. They are older so they come home and talk to each other and of course I either overhear or am in the room. They don't mean anything by it they just make comments like " who giggles that much" and did you see how He followed dad around. That kind of stuff.
We don't really have talks about much concerning kids bc he starts in with well ow does it this way with her stbx and she doesn't ask him for extra money. I want to say yeah cause she has ur extra money. Unless I agree with him he refuses to discuss the kids. And if she is around he refuses to discuss anything.
I am trying to busy myself with things to keep my mind off of this. Why does this bother me so much when I don't want him back?
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12
