If you expect bad results when it comes to interacting with your spouse about a particular subject, you inadvertently behave in ways that signal your expectation and bring about the very results you fear- the self-fulfilling prophecy. Instead, ask yourself how you would approach your spouse differently if you had positive expectations about the outcome. What would you say or do differently if you were confident things were going to work out? Then do that! Experiment with this today. -Michele Weiner-Davis (via @Divorce Busting)
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
